And I Wonder When?

Last night, I sat awake thinking about how the wind was really irritating and I'd rather be sleeping than thinking because thinking is dangerous for me....and then I thought, 'When did I become just one of the guys or the girl that all the guys ask for love advice and not the flirt that I always was?! What moment was that, and what can I do to fix it?!' And then the wind finally stopped and I fell asleep.....